Sunday, June 09, 2013


It may appear to be a standard "belly shot."

This picture just happened to be taken last week when I reached 23 weeks and 2 days. A year and a half ago, 23 weeks and 2 days is when we met Hannah.

The whole week leading up to that day, I kept thinking "Hannah was probably gone by now." And as if on cue, baby boy would flip or kick to let me know that he was definitely not gone.

Our pastor was able to put some words to this complicated time for me in last week's sermon. We're studying Acts, and the last couple of weeks have focused on how we respond to storms. Sometimes we survive them, sometimes we can't avoid the bad waves and our boat is capsized.

The truth is, our boat DID capsize on November 5, 2011. I remember people telling me it was okay to be mad at God. And I knew that it was okay--that God could handle it. But I never felt that. I knew that somehow, in the midst of our pain, God was (and is) still good. And when we got pregnant again, we trusted a God we knew was good. And when that pregnancy ended too, we still trusted. What other option did we have? Sink in an ocean that had claimed our boat yet again?

My lightbulb moment last Sunday came when our pastor explained why we continue to trust when things go wrong, particularly repeatedly. We trust because he has proven to be trustworthy by the work he did on the cross. We're not just trusting because it's the right, godly thing to do.

So I've made it past the point where we said hello and goodbye to Hannah. This is the most pregnant I've been since March of 2009 when Leah was inside me. And obviously making it past this point doesn't guarantee us anything. We aren't promised a healthy, living baby just because we've made it to ___ weeks. But that doesn't mean that I have to spend the next 17 weeks in fear. I will continue to trust. To trust a God who is good. A God who gives good gifts. A God who will carry us through whatever lies ahead, whether than includes parenting this boy in this world or not. A God who has given us good reason to trust him.

*If you're interested in checking out the whole sermon, you can watch here:


Beth Morey said...

"We trust because he has proven to be trustworthy by the work he did on the cross. We're not just trusting because it's the right, godly thing to do." Yes. Oh, yes. Thank you for reminding me.

You are gorgeous! The time is flying so fast (it seems, at least, on my end). So excited for you, as you walk through this unsure, fragile, beautiful time.

Jen said...

Love you friend.

I remember my pastor saying to me after Abigail passed away, when we don't know what else to do "look to the cross"


Laurie and company said...

God bless you!!

Becky said...

Beautiful post, Erin. Trusting God with you. <3

Divya Nambiar said...

You are another strong woman whom I had the luck to meet thanks to Blogger. You remind me of my mom.. The beauty and joy of having a 'live'and 'smiling' baby after undergoing so much of pain and trauma is indeed beautiful. I have seen that, experienced it thanks to the presence of my brother.. :)
Wish you all the very best :)